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Pregnancy - What gift will my child bring for me?

Quite a lot going on! Pregnancy is in itself a profoundly changing process - anyone who has experienced this themselves or witnessed it in a loved one can agree with this. Pregnancy changes everyth...

Being ready for parenthood – what does that actually mean?

“I’m a mother,” a woman in her forties once said to me, “I have no idea what that actually means and how I’ve done it all for the last twenty years.” Isn't that exciting? We wait until Christmas Da...

WHY is my family life so challenging? Part 2 

– Here you can access part 1 of the blog article – A new way of asking The “What for?” So that's the magic question.  How is this supposed to be implemented in practice? If my child is in the midd...

WHY is my family life so challenging? Part 1

Why? We ask ourselves this question so often. Also in the family context. Why does my child act the way he does? Why do I get so angry? Why is my partner not friendly to me? Why do we have financia...

Doing children's things

Joy or duty? Being a parent means that from now on you do things from morning to evening that you would never do without children. That's the statement with which I started becoming a parent - and ...

Connectedness in the bigger picture

Monday morning, 7 a.m. I just woke up, not thirty seconds later my son is sitting in the middle of my bed and starts talking nonstop. I answer mechanically and look out the window. Can't think of a...

Parents on the cell phone – understand instead of condemning

Always this cell phone Do you know that - you have a family, children, a lot to do and always complain about a lack of time - and you find yourself on your smartphone in many moments of the day.  I...

Help, I'm pregnant! And now?! A text for everyone who has decided to get pregnant - and is happy and scared at the same time.

The test strip in your hand speaks a clear language.Trembling inside, you watched as the second stripe appeared on the horizon of the tiny window, completely changing the view of your world from on...

Our children as mirrors

An event At noon, 12:30 p.m., I have just picked up my two children from school and kindergarten. We chug along towards home in the car, chattering happily, the radio playing, the children looking ...